Spiderstu's World

Sex and Houses

Recently I had an offer from a colleague of mine... A female colleague! Ok no beating around the bush, she offered me no strings sex.

What did I say? What do you think I'm crazy, I said yes. She's funny, we get on well, she's really good looking and she's got a great rack... Sorry but she has!

There's just one little snag though, and it's a moral issue. She has a boyfriend. I know nothing about him or their relationship, to be honest I don't think I want to. I can't help going through the motions though. Am I a bastard for doing this? A part of me is saying yes I am. But another part of me is saying just do it.

I've learned of late to start trusting my gut feeling and go with my instinct more than usual. My gut is telling me to do it. I can see myself going down another road though, one where I get too attached and I know where that would lead. An old not so friendly emotion called jealousy would probably rear his ugly head. But that would mean strings and then that ends up being contaray to our whole agreement.

I don't know lets change the subject shall we.

I' m moving out! Yep after 24 years of living at home with Ma and Pa spiderstu I'm finally flying the coop.It's not too far a move, only from Solihull to Kidderminster. That's about 40 minutes drive, I do that twice a day anyway.

There's four of us moving into a great Victorian style house. Four double bedrooms, 3 floors and loads of space, the best thing is the rent works out at £34 a week! Gas and electric are top up cards so if we don't pay we don't play. There's no council tax because we're students (tee hee!) Then there's water rates, TV license and food. It's all affordable really, the only luxury I'm bothered about is broadband, I don't think I can live without the internet now.

So things are certainly changing fast at the moment, I'd be lying if I said it's not all a bit scary, but it's good for me. I'll try and keep you posted on how both events unfold. Although I've got a funny feeling one's going to be more eventful than the other. I'll let you work out which one.

So this is what i've done with my life

Thanks to Greg for this.

***Bold Font- you have done it.....Regular Font - you haven’t.....Italics - you wanna.***

001. Bought everyone in the pub a drink
002. Swam with wild dolphins
003. Climbed a mountain
004. Taken a Ferrari for a test drive
005. Been inside the Great Pyramid
006. Held a tarantula
007. Taken a candlelit bath with someone
008. Said “I love you” and meant it
009. Hugged a tree
010. Done a striptease
011. Bungee jumped
012. Visited Paris
013. Watched a lightning storm at sea
014. Stayed up all night long, and watch the sun rise
015. Seen the Northern Lights
016. Gone to a huge sports game
017. Walked the stairs to the top of the Leaning Tower of Pisa
018. Grown and eaten your own vegetables
019. Touched an iceberg
020. Slept under the stars
021. Changed a baby’s diaper
022. Taken a trip in a hot air balloon
023. Watched a meteor shower

024. Gotten drunk on champagne
025. Given more than you can afford to charity
026. Looked up at the night sky through a telescope
027. Had an uncontrollable giggling fit at the worst possible moment
028. Had a food fight
029. Bet on a winning horse
030. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill
031. Asked out a stranger
032. Had a snowball fight
033. Photocopied your bottom on the office photocopier
034. Screamed as loudly as you possibly can

035. Held a lamb
036. Enacted a favorite fantasy
037. Taken a midnight skinny dip
038. Taken an ice cold bath
039. Had a meaningful conversation with a beggar
040. Seen a total eclipse
041. Ridden a roller coaster
042. Hit a home run
043. Fit three weeks miraculously into three days
044. Danced like a fool and not cared who was looking
045. Adopted an accent for an entire day
046. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
047. Actually felt happy about your life, even for just a moment
048. Had two hard drives for your computer

049. Visited all 50 states
050. Loved your job for all accounts

051. Taken care of someone who was shit-faced
052. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
053. Had amazing friends
054. Danced with a stranger in a foreign country

055. Watched wild whales
056. Stolen a sign
057. Backpacked in Europe
058. Taken a road-trip
059. Gone rock climbing
060. Lied to foreign government’s official in that country to avoid notice
061. Midnight walk on the beach
062. Sky diving
063. Visited Ireland (born and lived there)
064. Been heartbroken longer then you were actually in love
065. In a restaurant, sat at a stranger’s table and had a meal with them
066. Visited Japan
067. Benchpressed your own weight
068. Milked a cow
069. Alphabetized your CDs (and video and DVDS)
070. Pretended to be a superhero
071. Sung karaoke
072. Lounged around in bed all day

073. Posed nude in front of strangers
074. Scuba diving
075. Got it on to “Let’s Get It On” by Marvin Gaye
076. Kissed in the rain
077. Played in the mud
078. Played in the rain
079. Gone to a drive-in theater
080. Done something you should regret, but don’t regret it
081. Visited the Great Wall of China
082. Discovered that someone who’s not supposed to have known about your blog has discovered your blog
083. Dropped Windows in favor of something better
084. Started a business
085. Fallen in love and not had your heart broken
086. Toured ancient sites
087. Taken a martial arts class
088. Swordfought for the honor of a woman
089. Played D&D for more than 6 hours straight
090. Gotten married
091. Been in a movie (does an advert count?)
092. Crashed a party
093. Loved someone you shouldn’t have
094. Kissed someone so passionately it made them dizzy

095. Gotten divorced
096. Had sex at the office (I've done it at college, thats close enough for me)
097. Gone without food for 5 days
098. Made cookies from scratch
099. Won first prize in a costume contest
100. Ridden a gondola in Venice
101. Gotten a tattoo
102. Found that the texture of some materials can turn you on
103. Rafted the Snake River
104. Been on television news programs as an “expert”
105. Got flowers for no reason
106. Masturbated in a public place
107. Got so drunk you don’t remember anything

108. Been addicted to some form of illegal drug
109. Performed on stage
110. Been to Las Vegas
111. Recorded music
112. Eaten shark
113. Had a one-night stand
114. Gone to Thailand
115. Seen Siouxsie live
116. Bought a house
117. Been in a combat zone
118. Buried one/both of your parents
119. Shaved or waxed your pubic hair off
120. Been on a cruise ship
121. Spoken more than one language fluently
122. Gotten into a fight while attempting to defend someone
123. Bounced a check
124. Performed in Rocky Horror
125. Read - and understood - your credit report
126. Raised children
127. Recently bought and played with a favorite childhood toy
128. Followed your favorite band/singer on tour
129. Created and named your own constellation of stars
130. Taken an exotic bicycle tour in a foreign country
131. Found out something significant that your ancestors did (4 days ago actually)
132. Called or written your Congress person
133. Picked up and moved to another city to just start over
134. - More than once? - More than thrice?
135. Walked the Golden Gate Bridge
136. Sang loudly in the car, and didn’t stop when you knew someone was looking
137. Had an abortion or your female partner did
138. Had plastic surgery
139. Survived an accident that you shouldn’t have survived
140. Wrote articles for a large publication
141. Lost over 100 pounds
142. Held someone while they were having a flashback
143. Piloted an airplane
144. Petted a stingray

145. Broken someone’s heart
146. Helped an animal give birth
147. Been fired or laid off from a job
148. Won money on a T.V. game show
149. Broken a bone
150. Killed a human being (just kidding... or am i?)
151. Gone on an African photo safari
152. Ridden a motorcycle
153. Driven any land vehicle at a speed of greater than 100 mph

154. Had a body part of yours below the neck pierced
155. Fired a rifle, shotgun, or pistol
156. Eaten mushrooms that were gathered in the wild
157. Ridden a horse
158. Had major surgery
159. Had sex on a moving train
160. Had a snake as a pet
161. Hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon
162. Slept through an entire flight: takeoff, flight, and landing
163. Slept for more than 30 hours over the course of 48 hours
164. Visited more foreign countries than U.S. states
165. Visited all 7 continents
166. Taken a canoe trip that lasted more than 2 days
167. Eaten kangaroo meat
168. Fallen in love at an ancient Mayan burial ground
169. Been a sperm or egg donor
170. Eaten sushi
171. Had your picture in the newspaper
172. Had 2 (or more) healthy romantic relationships for over a year in your lifetime
173. Changed someone’s mind about something you care deeply about
174. Gotten someone fired for their actions
175. Gone back to school
176. Parasailed
177. Changed your name
178. Petted a cockroach
179. Eaten fried green tomatoes
180. Read The Iliad
181. Selected one “important” author who you missed in school, and read
182. Dined in a restaurant and stolen silverware, plates, cups because your apartment needed them
183. ...and gotten 86′ed from the restaurant because you did it so many times,they figured out it was you
184. Taught yourself an art from scratch
185. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
186. Apologized to someone years after inflicting the hurt
187. Skipped all your school reunions
188. Communicated with someone without sharing a common spoken language
189. Been elected to public office
190. Written your own computer language
191. Thought to yourself that you’re living your dream
192. Had to put someone you love into hospice care
193. Built your own PC from parts!!!
194. Sold your own artwork to someone who didn’t know you
195. Had a booth at a street fair
196: Dyed your hair
197: Been a DJ
198: Found out someone was going to dump you via LiveJournal
199: Written your own role playing game
200: Been arrested

Spiderstu Returns

Alright I realise it's been almost a full millennia since I last posted anything, but in my defense I've been very busy at uni. Man I had no idea the course would be so full on, good news though I've got two assignments out of the way and another one is almost done. So things are cooling off for a while.

I've got two film scenes on the go at the moment and a five minute short. One film scene is from Dogma, the speech where Bartleby goes a little bit mad after they're thrown off the train by Silent bob. I shot it yesterday and for the most part everything went well and it was a lot of fun too. There were a few problems that crept through though, like a dog barking for half an hour straight! And when I watched it back in some parts the extractor fans where we filmed we quite audible, so a few re shoots may be necessary.

So that's more or less at the post production stage. The next furthest along project is a five minute short comprised totally from my brain, it's called "A Superheroes Day Off." Basically it has a very surreal yet naturalistic style to it. It follows a Superhero called Powerman around his activities on his day off. So that's at the scriptwriting stage at the moment.

The next film scene I want to do is one from Band of Brothers but there's about five scenes I'm considering from that so that's still at a very early stage. So combined with all the essays and work on other peoples projects that I'm helping out with, plus the fact that I'm having to work a bit more to pay for stuff, mixed in with a little social life, I'm sure you can understand how time for Spiderstu's World is something I have had very little of lately.

But fear not I've got too much stuff cooped up in my head at the moment and this blog is perfect place to ease the load, so posts will be coming more regularly than ever before...Hopefully.

The ironic thing is when I was doing jack all I had loads of time and nothing to write about. Now I've got tons to write about just no freaking time!

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